Entry for January 31, 2007

Hôm nay thay cái wallpaper "Vancover by night" bằng 2 cái ghế gỗ cũ kỹ , ngập trong cỏ lúa vàng xanh, lặng lẽ xoay ra ngoài biển đang tung bọt trắng xóa trong một chiều nhiều gió và mù mịt hơi nước. Chẳng có nắng vàng, chẳng có cát trắng, chẳng có gái đẹp khoe eo thon. Thật ra là một scene động hay tĩnh. Thật ra lúc xem ảnh, lòng mình tĩnh hay động. Tĩnh hay động, ai đang ảnh hưởng ai?
Tối nay chở ba đi thăm bác rồi đi lăng quăng với một người (có vẻ) thú vị, và vô hại. Giá ít hỏi những câu vĩ mô và "gái" đi một chút thì tốt. Hỏi "why men always lie to the one they love" thì thật ... gái quá. Một điểm trừ cho đội xanh
1001 habits that I expect will change my life (in a good way, certainly)
I'm not there yet, but I'm trying
Building at least a good habit a ... month :">
Habit #1:
Whenever opening any files, either to use as a template or to update it, make sure you save and update its version indicator in the filename first before starting to make changes on it.
Well, there're countless number of times that I accidentally overwrite the old version. [Undo] never does the job due to another "good" habit I've already have: Clicking [Save] every minute
Habit #2:
Continuously using the 4D rule on coming emails. i.e. upon receiving a new email, you only have 4 choices:
- Delete it
- Do it
- Delegate it
- Defer it
DELETE IT: This is simple, 30% of my coming emails are non sense and "qualified" to be deleted right away. Trust me, you can do even better that that
DO IT: If the email is relevant and the task related or emerged can be done in 2 minutes, why wait? Go DOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO IT
DELEGATE IT: Well, if you can't delete it and can't do it within 2 minutes, can you Delegate it?
DEFER IT: If you can't delete or delegate it and you also can't do it within 2 minutes, then it's something you must do later, not now. Act quick and convert it into a task (Outlook proves to be quite useful on this).
The 4D rule can also be applied to existing emails, certainly. (More to read here: http://www.microsoft.com/atwork/manageinfo/email.mspx)
To close the post, this habit really has a huge impact on my office mailbox and I no longer receive Over-quota warning from ICT. It might be more difficult with your personal mailbox, as in the name, most emails that hit your personal mailbox are PERSONAL. You might never be able to Delete them, Do them, Delegate them or Defer them cuz' they're your pieces of memory, emotion, sin
You just can't. So ask yourself if it's worth keeping it, if it makes you smile or it gets you cry. Sometimes, clinging on an illusioned happiness is just not right. Hitting Delete might. On an email, on a relationship, on a haunting memory...
Sự tinh nghịch của ngôn ngữ …
Đọc đâu đó về sự phong phú của tiếng Việt, cũng bày đặt đem ra nghịch chơi. Nghịch để chơi, nhưng nghịch xong lại cảm thấy có nhiều chuyện không nên chơi dù nghịch. Chơi nghịch với mình + yêu + bạn thì ra được như vầy:
Mình yêu bạn! (Đã đành
)
Mình bạn yêu! (Ích kỷ
)
Bạn yêu mình! (Tada
)
Bạn mình yêu! (Again???
)
Yêu mình bạn! (Ah hah
)
Yêu bạn mình! (Tiện
)
Chưa kể thêm dấu câu vô nữa thì ...
Mình yêu bạn! (Ewww!
)
Mình yêu bạn? (Dream on!
)
Mình ... yêu ... bạn (Lâm chung
)
v..v..v đại loại thế
Vậy cái chuyện nghịch chơi này vì sao sau một hồi không nên chơi nghịch? Vì ngẫm lại cái câu nguyên thủy "mình yêu bạn" có mấy khi mình chịu khó sửa thành "con yêu ba mẹ", "cháu yêu ông bà"? Có mấy chữ ngắn cũn, tốn mấy làn hơi? nhọc mấy mà lười? ngại mấy mà bao biện "yếu đuối" và "ủy mị"?
Ừh! Anh yêu em
Có còn núi cho anh trèo?
Có còn sông cho anh lội?
Có còn đèo cho anh qua? ...
Hallelujah
FYI, I'm not religious and will never be (my kids might be though <sigh>), but most of the "God" songs are great. I digged this up from Scrubs, my all time favourite TV Shows in a scene where Tux finally found back his faith. Yeah, it's always good to put ur faith on someone else
as it's felt much better to blame that someone else but you
Poor thy, Lord! Hallelujah, hallelujah! My faith was strong but I needed proof ...
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Hallelujah
Singer: John Cale
Words & music: Leonard Cohen
Ive heard there was a secret chord
That David played and it pleased the lord
But you don't really care for music, do you?
It goes like this
The fourth, the fifth
The minor fall, the major lift
The baffled king composing hallelujah
Hallelujah
Your faith was strong, but you needed proof
You saw her bathing on the roof
Her beauty and the moonlight overthrew you
She tied you
To a kitchen chair
She broke your throne, she cut your hair
And from your lips she drew the hallelujah
Hallelujah
Baby Ive been here before, I know this room
Ive walked this floor
I used to live alone before I knew you
Ive seen your flag on the marble arch
Love is not a victory march
Its a cold and its a broken hallelujah
Hallelujah
There was a time you let me know
Whats really going on below
But now you never show it to me, do you?
I remember when I moved in you
And the holy dove was moving too
And every breath we drew was hallelujah
Hallelujah
Maybe theres a God above, all I ever learned from love
Was how to shoot at someone who out drew you
And its not a cry you can hear at night
Its not somebody who's seen the light
Its a cold and its a broken hallelujah
Hallelujah
Hallelujah
Friday, July 22, 2005 – Vietnam War remnant Museum
See how lame I was
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I went to the War Remnants Museum last Sunday. My auntie was very happy that I took her 13 year-old son along. She had her reason to be happy. In this rowdy, busy city, kids don't have much time to enrich their spirit life. Normally, their time budget is greedily consumed by school work and extra study time after hour. All efforts are paid just to get into the seem-to-be-the-only-gate-to-life: university. And even when kids are doing so well with school that they have some free time, there's a great chance that their parents are work overloaded
. So no chance, kido! Keep study until dead!
I was quite surprised that my cousin was eager to go with me. I think the urge to explore, to learn things we don't know are what separates us from monkeys :">. For me, so tired being stuck in a whirl of work, relationships, I just wanna get away for a while (men go to their cave when they have issue, remember). And I wanna enrich my spirit life too. After all these year enjoying each and every sweet and bitter moments of love, I found my self to be a boring, passive, moody man endlessly running after only one purpose: not to make my gf get bored. The spirit life which used to be so rich and got ppl interested is now soooo poor and low that somehow I get scared thinking: so this is it? Who I'm gonna be in the next 5,10 or 20 years? Guess it's time to "spice up mylife" a little bit!
We got to the museum around 3pm. It was a perfect day to go out with the gentle breeze fondled our hair and clothes. The sky was cloudless, yet, it wasn't hot at all. There were many foreign tourists visiting the museum at that time. Without going to say, this is the most popular Vietnamese museum among Western tourists. After all, what else do they know about Vietnam if it's not about a country in which wars again imperious giant countries have become normal?
My first surprise when I first walked in the museum was the friendliness of the guards. Being friendly with guests is not a common gesture of government owned office's employees. The idea of: "You come to me, so you need me" were carved in their mind from the 80s when private properties are prohibited and everything is shared "equally". Interestingly, government officers were the ones to decide how "equally" is fair.
My second surprise came when I found out that it's really cheap to buy an entry ticket. It's only 2000 VND per adult, and it's free for kids whose height under 1m2. 2000VND is about only 15 cents, and it's equal the price of a bike keeping ticket. I guess, the government is trying to encourage ppl to visit the museum either to remind them how horrible the war was or to let ppl know that the war was really behind.
It's interesting to know that the museum was housed in the former U.S. Information Service building and it didn't changed much. It's even more interesting to know that the museum was once named: Museum of Chinese and American War Crimes. Vietnam was under Chinese colonisation for more than 1000 years, was occupied by the French for more than 100 years and was suffered during a 3-decade civil war with the involvement of Japanese and American. So I guess the old name was selected to point out by whom, Vietnamese ppl suffered the most. Fortunately, the name was changed into War Remnant Museum, it not only avoids offending Chinese and American tourists but also somehow reflects the change in the way Vietnamese ppl perceive about the War. Not every Chinese or American supported the war, only their government did. So it's no longer appropriate to hate even when the wounds are still there every where in the country and they're all felt like new. Still, it's funny that the pamphlets passed out at the entrance pull no punches, warning stoically, "Some pictures of U.S. imperialists' aggressive war crimes in Vietnam." Hmm, where is the opinion box?
The museum kicks off in the courtyard with planes, tanks, bombs and helicopters being on display. While lying quietly and being exposed to the sun, the rain and the severe weather conditions, they still looked liked they were just from yesterday, that they're ready to fire and bomb again. All of them are US-army owned and left behind after the war. Many of them were the most modern technology of that time.
"The exhibits at the side of the building, albeit without description cards, speak for themselves. There are life-size models of the tiger cages used by the South Vietnamese to house Viet Cong prisoners on Con Dao Island and pictures of genetically deformed babies, victims of Agent Orange."[One review on the internet] Having heard and read a lot about this real hell on Earth, I still felt a little bit shocked to find out how harshly prisoners were tortured back then.
The main building "consists largely of photographs, history cards, war artifacts (old bullets, shrapnel, uniforms, etc.) arranged in a chronological time-line to represent the development, progress and conclusion of the Vietnam War. It's not a pretty story, not especially with the unnecessarily crude comments under the photo displays (the photos themselves are quite lurid) -- there is one of a U.S. soldier picking up a horribly mangled boy and the following description says, "This soldiers seems satisfied." " [Another review on the internet]. The interesting fact about all these photographs and comments is that they're all taken by Western War Reporter - no sugar-coating by American propaganda.
Few other museums represent war in such a stark and telling manner, mainly due to their political correctness. Yet, even few other museums have a small "green" area, where drawings of children about the war is displayed. Seeing these drawings raises the hope in me about a new generation with "Say-no-to-war" built-in in their heart.
Overall, I was quite disappointed about the significance of the museum. I had the feeling that the museum was not capable to reflect how horrible the war was, I know there're much more dark spot behind waiting to be revealed. Still, to be fair, the museum is a must-visit place for you and me. if you want to experience the true horror of war without actually going to war this is the place to come.I myself have learned the right lesson as I walked away with the feeling that there is nothing positive about war. I felt like I was blessed that I wasn't borned during that period, that I can breath the freedo
m air righ
t now, that I can sleep well at nite without worrying if I'll be able to wake up tomorrow, that I was lucky to be borned healthy without any effect of Agent Orange. I took a deep breath and took my cousin home. There are still so many things beyound that I must conquer after knowing how lucky I am. My cousin seemed to be quiet after the visit. Maybe, … it's time for him to start thinking outside his peaceful box. It's time for me too… Don't you think?
Thursday, September 29, 2005 – A quiet Thursday morning in Sai Gon
The old blog @ blogspot has fulfilled its duty, it's a good time to transfer the old posts to the new blog and take the old blog down. When you look back in time, it's quite surprised to see how things have changed: Me was up almost everynite? Me with outdoor, social activities? Me with beer, wine and chicks? Men, what's a time of my life
Well, this doesn't mean I'm not living to the fullest now
it's just another view angle, another perspective, another ring of friends, and another target to reach. Well, the post was written on my last day @PSV. 1 year 3 months have passed
I think I've done the right thing
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The last two months were full of outdoor, social activities and I've been up almost everynite. I didn't even have time to open my laptop and organize the photos. I guess living every moment to the fullest is just like that
, you don't care much about the consequences, just let the emotion flow. Oh what the hell, gonna get back to this issue later ...
It's been sooooooooo long that I haven't had this relaxing feeling like today. Tomorrow will be my last day at PSV, the software company that I've been working for more than 1 and a half year, the first stop in my professional career life. Maybe that's the reason why there's no bug assigned to me these days. Even ppl on the road seems to ride more slowly, and even the clouds on the sky look brighter and lazier. Yet, I got a weird feeling inside, I was used to speed so the stand still pace of the morning made me a little bit off balance. Have you ever thought that: you need to take a little time to stand off the little busy road of life to see what you've gained, what you've lost and where are you heading to? I do think I need one rite now, life is full of crossroads, and who can be sure that he/she always make the rite turn.
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Oh, I also realized that I was thinking about "life with full of crossroads" quite often. That's right, to me, life is all about making choices, from the smallest, simplest thing like whether or not should I pee now, or wait till I finish writing this post to the much bigger, more complicated decision like career change, it's all about making choices. Most of the time, my instinct won and were right
So Yahooooo! I'm gonna pee now
Oh, I'm done :"> let's click [Post this Entry] and get back to work
“The lake house” or “On waiting”
It's 3 in the morning and it starts to get light when I'm done watching The lake house, all by myself. Hung is sleeping like a log next door and I'll gotta see him off to the airport at 4:30 AM, then at 8, I'll have to be ready in suit, being a best man for the whole day for KM, the first guy in our Math class to be married. It's quite a day, hah
So why am I still up typing these lines? The blame is on "The lake house"
.
In fact, I've never stopped loving watching American movies/TV series on relationship. Mostly because of the way they solve relationship problems without having to stop being them self. All people I know act strangely when they're in a relationship trouble: some reveals their true self, other just becomes somebody else and none of them can become normal again after the fight, either if both sides are both wrong, or just one of them being not sensible enuf
It can never be the same again.
Oh, but "The lake house" is not about fighting couples
It's about ... waiting
waiting for the right people and waiting for the right moment to come. ...[Place holder] ... And it is a heart stopping scene when Alex(Keanu Reeves) saw Kate (Sandra Bullock) sitting at the Dezzley Parks ... [Place holder]
Despite the fact that many of my friends and even the DVD guy commented that "The lake house" is "OK", I found it GREAT. Keanu Reeves, once again, did a good piece of acting and Sandra Bullock together with Crash completely convince me that she's a great actress. And N., I do agree with ya that the chemistry between them is stunning. So guys, go grab a copy of "The lake house" at your nearby DVD stores and watch it with your beloved one b4 someone else does
Now, it's bedtime. The sky is so pink pale outside waving for Sunday day to come. For me, I've just called it a day, a fruitful Saturday, lots of up, no down.
PS: Should put this onto my to-do list upon finishing the DVD: Read "Persuasion" by Jane Austen. Anyone have it? Anyone?
Xa nữa đi, gần làm chi cho lắm
Xa nữa đi, gần làm chi cho lắm
Bởi lúc nắm tay, tình cảm cũng mệt nhoài
Ai bảo rằng mất mát dễ nguôi ngoai
Khi cảm xúc bốc hơi, để nỗi buồn ở lại
Dù biết rứa mà rănglòng vẫn dại...
(Lấy cảm hứng từ blast: Gần thêm nữa, thế vần còn xa lắm của Boo. :"> và dành tặng cho những người suốt ngày cứ thấy chông chênh)